In life when we experience losses, or make mistakes, think how we have ruined our moment, and that we have ultimately failed. Those losses are pointing you in the direction you need to be in, nothing in life comes as a failure when you are walking in your purpose. Things are going to happen that you have to learn the lesson on in order to prepare for the next moment. Where you are right now is not it! This is not your final chance, experience life and live for you, not live to not fail!